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Do You See Failure or Success? Changing your outlook to achieve success in your own life.
What do you see when you look at your clients or customers? Do you see failure or success?
When I worked as a high school teacher--in moments when my students were working on their own--I would say to myself, "The light in me sees the light in you." I really felt that. I could see my students succeeding long before they could see it or could even venture to believe it. However, I knew as their teacher it was my duty to hold that vision and energy for them and then guide them through the action steps of getting there. It always worked. I have countless high school teaching success stories.
I see that same (if not more--I've learned a lot in the past few years) success for the private and Boot Camp clients I work with now. I literally see them as a successful magazine owner, professional organizer, coach, meditation expert, Feng Shui practitioner...and the list goes on. It continues to work.
I ask you to begin to apply this to your own business. Here are 3 steps to begin SEEING success in those that you serve. Because seeing success in others will bring untold success to yourself!
Change the way you look at things and the things you look at change
In Dr. Wayne Dyer's book, The Power of Intention, he sites that, "It turns out that at the tiniest subatomic level, the actual act of observing a particle changes the particle." This is a clear example of energy affecting energy. If I look at you and see your success, then you begin to create more of and be success! How great is that?
In a less 'spiritual' way of looking at this, when I see you as a success, I encourage you and build your self confidence. This in turn will create success in your life, which of course will feed my success.
So when speaking to a prospect, customer, or client, instead of questioning your abilities (wondering if you'll get the sale or joining them in their woes), the most powerful action you can take is to change the way you are looking at the situation. See them as happy, joyful, peaceful, well, successful...and more. You will be effecting a change that will result in more success and abundance for the both of you. (It feels so much better than worry and doubt!)
Be constantly giving
The energy of success is constantly giving, and the supply is limitless. When you can come from this place in your own business, you begin to attract more into your life.
I know when I first heard this, it was hard for me to grasp. Mostly, because I used to come from a place of giving, but have one eye immediately on making sure that I was compensated and at the same time convinced that I wouldn't be. Guess what? I wasn't and I felt a whole lot of resentment at the same time.
When I shifted my attention to giving for the sake of the success of those that I was serving and simultaneously confidently took care of what I needed for myself and my business (instead of waiting for someone else to do just do it), there was more success ALL around.
When you give unreservedly to people with no expectation of what you will receive in return, you will find that people of a similar nature are attracted to you. In much the same sentiment as 'Birds of a Feather, Flock together'. This will bring you many unlooked for opportunities and thus much success. And a side effect will be a huge number of people who simply love and adore you, so your wealth of friends will increase also. With such a support system in place you can do anything at all - and you will succeed over and over again, in business and in life.
Detach from the outcome
When you are able to SEE success, you don't need to be attached to the outcome because you KNOW that it's going to be successful. Whenever you are caught up in accumulating (I have to get this client; I have to sell to this customer), then you lose sight of what your main goal is--to see the success of those that you serve.
Find out exactly what's going on for the person that you're speaking to. Ask them and ask yourself, what do they need? The answer to this question is usually multi-layered. (For example, prospects that come to me may need more income from their businesses, but they also need to move through the blocks they've unconsciously set up for themselves that's keeping them from getting more money). So, you then SEE them as getting their needs fully met and begin the process of working with that person, so you can help make it happen.
Putting this into Practice
1) Ask yourself, how do I see my prospects, clients, or customers? Be honest. Just let the answer come. No judgment. It will give you a lot of information.
2) With whatever answer you get now, ask yourself, "How can I improve?" How can I see this situation differently?
3) For one day focus only on those you serve and their success. Write down the difference in how you feel, the results that your clients get, and anything else that pops up.
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